What is a good relationship? So many people have their ideas of what a relationship should be, however I have learned that many people have good relationships on their own terms and not on what other people “professionals” say it should be. As we can look up so many books on how to have a healthy relationship, however I personal believe to have a healthy relationship, YOU have to have a powerful mind, a powerful soul, and a powerful ability to know what you will and will not take from another person.
I have had my share of relationships that did not work out and while I were in those relationships I couldn’t figure out why they didn’t until I took some me time. The time I took to regain my self love, respect and confidence. I took the time to reflect on those relationships and see how and what I can do better to make my next relationship better. What I did wrong? The number one thing I realized I did was not continuing to loving me. I lost myself in those relationships and lost control of who and what I wanted to be. I allowed the people to play on emotions and control of how I felt about myself and my life. I allowed for the relationship to dictate and control my path of self love. In the end, I have learned that loving me comes first and then everything else will follow.
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